A new book published June 23 reveals that First Lady Melania Trump repeatedly clashed with President Donald Trump over sweeping renovations to the White House — and that, time and again, the president’s vision prevailed over her objections.
New York Times reporters Maggie Haberman and Jonathan Swan drew on more than 1,000 interviews to produce Regime Change, a detailed account of the inner workings of Trump’s second term. The authors also sat down with the president himself for a hourlong interview, during which Trump pushed back on a handful of specific points but did not challenge the book’s broader conclusions.
The Rose Garden Battle
At the center of the couple’s tensions was the White House Rose Garden — a space Melania Trump had personally transformed during her husband’s first term. That redesign, which introduced a new limestone border and roses in white and pastel shades, was considered “one of her proudest achievements,” according to Haberman and Swan. When President Trump floated a plan to pave over the garden entirely, the first lady made her displeasure clear, the authors wrote. The couple eventually compromised: stone tiles would be laid over the grass, but her rosebushes would remain. The resulting Rose Garden Club, modeled after the outdoor terrace at Trump’s Mar-a-Lago estate in Florida, was unveiled in August 2025.
The Ballroom Dispute and East Wing Demolition
The Rose Garden was far from the only flashpoint. President Trump’s plan to construct a $300 million ballroom on the White House grounds generated significant friction behind closed doors. Haberman and Swan said White House staff struggled to navigate the couple’s competing visions, with Melania Trump voicing concern about both the size and placement of the proposed structure. Despite her reservations, demolition of the East Wing — which had long housed the Office of the First Lady, as well as the White House movie theater and the presidential bunker — began in October 2025 and was completed by late October of that year. The first lady distanced herself from the project, telling associates it was not her initiative. The administration has described the ballroom as “a bold, necessary addition” to the executive mansion and has maintained the project is entirely privately funded. In October 2025, officials released a donor list that included major corporations such as Amazon, Apple, and Google.
A House Divided Over Décor
The disagreements extended deep into the private residence as well. According to Regime Change, the president and first lady maintain separate bedrooms in the White House, and Trump’s efforts to redecorate his own room put him in direct conflict with choices Melania had made. Staff members reportedly felt caught between the two Trumps in the weeks following the January 2025 inauguration, as the president helped himself to furnishings and decorative pieces his wife had personally selected for shared spaces. When aides pointed out that he was removing items from the Center Hall that she had chosen, he was unmoved, the book said.
The dynamic played out with one particularly striking piece: a large gold-leaf-framed mirror that Melania had positioned as the focal point of the Queens’ Bedroom during Trump’s first term. In March 2026, the president had it moved to the Rose Garden colonnade, where it quickly acquired the unofficial nickname the “selfie mirror” among visitors and staff.
Melania Trump’s aesthetic sensibilities also put her at odds with her husband’s ornate Oval Office makeover. The book recounts a meeting on Independence Day 2025, when Speaker of the House Mike Johnson was in the Oval Office and the first lady walked in. She made no secret of her feelings about the gold-laden redesign. President Trump acknowledged the difference in taste, telling Johnson she preferred a more understated look — but defended his choices anyway, arguing that the Oval Office simply looked better with the gilded flourishes. The book notes that Trump went so far as to personally apply gold decorations using superglue, a hands-on approach that apparently surprised no one close to him.
What the Book Reveals About White House Power
Taken together, the portrait that emerges from Regime Change is one of a first lady with strong opinions and genuine design expertise who nonetheless found herself repeatedly outmaneuvered by a husband equally — if not more — invested in reshaping the White House to his own tastes. Where Melania favored restraint and continuity, the president favored spectacle and gold.
The book was published June 23.
