In her latest memoir, “Something Lost, Something Gained,” Hillary Clinton has shared an in-depth account of her initial in-person meeting with Melania Trump following the 2016 election.
Clinton, along with former First Ladies Michelle Obama and Jill Biden, met Melania Trump in November 2023 at a memorial service for Rosalynn Carter, the former First Lady in Atlanta, Georgia. Given the past negative remarks directed at their families by Donald Trump, Clinton characterized the encounter as uncomfortable.
In the book, Clinton paints a clear picture of the encounter, stating Melania appeared like a child at a birthday party, unsure and hoping for friendly interactions, despite her smile.
The past First Ladies, despite the underlying tension, approached Melania. Clinton mentions that Jill Biden offered an air-kiss to Melania’s cheek while Michelle Obama embraced her warmly, illustrating an instance of politeness and unity in a potentially sensitive setting.
The book further explores the history of interactions between Clinton and Melania. According to Clinton, their first encounter was at Donald and Melania Trump’s wedding in 2005. Clinton, who attended the wedding out of curiosity, remembered Melania as tall, young, and beautiful, but noticed her limited social interactions. These early meetings established the ambivalent feelings Clinton has towards Melania, which she elaborates on in her book.
Clinton’s reflection on Melania in her book revolves around her difficulty in reconciling Melania’s public image with her husband’s controversial actions. While Clinton affirms that she doesn’t believe that a wife should be held accountable for her husband’s deeds, she admits to questioning whether Melania may have supported or contributed to Donald Trump’s divisive rhetoric and policies.
Among the criticisms leveled at Melania was her choice of a gray suit for Rosalynn Carter’s memorial service instead of the traditionally expected black. However, Clinton defended Melania, clarifying that the custom of wearing black to funerals isn’t as prevalent today.
Clinton further highlighted that other attendees, including Rosalynn’s grandson, Jason Carter, and President Joe Biden, wore non-black attire during the service. She argued that the condemnation of Melania over such a minor issue, especially when the men received no criticism for their clothing, showcased the double standards often experienced by women.
The book also sheds light on the challenges faced in public life, particularly by women in high-profile positions, and offers a glimpse into the intricate relationships in the political sphere.
