Former President Barack Obama and former First Lady Michelle Obama did not attend the funeral of former Vice President Dick Cheney on November 20, 2025, in Washington, D.C. This absence aligns with a recent pattern of Michelle Obama not attending major political events, prompting speculation and public criticism.
The Obamas’ nonattendance at Cheney’s funeral was not entirely surprising, as they also missed the 2022 funeral of former Vice President Walter Mondale. Although attendance at vice presidential funerals is not mandatory for former presidents, their repeated absences have drawn attention from political analysts.
Cheney, who served as vice president under George W. Bush from 2001 to 2009, passed away on November 3, 2025, at the age of 84 due to complications from pneumonia and heart disease.
Throughout 2025, Michelle Obama has notably been absent from several key events. She did not attend the funeral of former President Jimmy Carter on January 9, despite the presence of all living former presidents and their spouses. Additionally, she skipped President Donald Trump’s second inauguration on January 20. Barack Obama attended both events without her, sitting with other former presidents and first ladies.
Michelle Obama addressed the growing curiosity about her absences on her podcast in April 2025. Speaking with actress Taraji P. Henson, Michelle explained that her choice to skip the inauguration and prioritize her personal preferences led to harsh criticism. She noted that people assumed her marriage was in trouble, rather than recognizing her efforts to make choices that were right for her. Michelle has stated she is learning to decline events that don’t align with her priorities, focusing on her family and a more private life.
Other notable figures were also absent from Cheney’s funeral. President Trump and Vice President JD Vance were not invited, likely due to Trump’s contentious relationship with the Cheney family, particularly with former Rep. Liz Cheney, who criticized Trump’s actions regarding the January 6 Capitol riot. Former President Bill Clinton did not attend due to a scheduling conflict.
Despite these absences, the funeral saw a significant gathering of political figures from both parties. Former Presidents George W. Bush and Joe Biden were the only living presidents present at the Washington National Cathedral service. All living former vice presidents except Vance attended, including Kamala Harris, Mike Pence, Al Gore, and Dan Quayle. The memorial also included Supreme Court justices, senators, and other political leaders.
George W. Bush delivered a eulogy, recalling that in 2004, Cheney had offered to step down if Bush wanted a different running mate. After considering Cheney’s ability to handle pressure, Bush concluded that there’s no one better than Dick Cheney. Bush praised Cheney’s character, noting that in a world of talkers, Cheney was a thinker and a listener.
Liz Cheney gave a heartfelt tribute to her father, sharing that he took the time to read every sign and plaque at battlefields and museums during family trips. She wanted her father’s grandchildren to understand the sacrifices past generations made for American freedom. Liz Cheney mentioned her father’s final words were expressing love for her mother.
Former NBC correspondent Pete Williams, who served as Cheney’s Pentagon spokesman, shared a story illustrating Cheney’s character. Williams recounted offering to resign in 1991 when a magazine planned to out him as gay. Cheney refused to accept the resignation and regularly checked on Williams’ well-being afterward, encouraging him to continue his work.
While Barack Obama did not attend the funeral, he shared a tribute on Facebook following Cheney’s death. Obama wrote that despite their differing political views, he respected Cheney’s lifelong dedication to public service and deep love of country.
The speculation surrounding the Obamas’ relationship has grown with Michelle’s repeated absences from major events. Sources close to Michelle suggest she avoids appearances solely for protocol, especially around Trump, who has frequently criticized the Obama family. Additionally, reports have hinted at tension between Barack Obama and President Biden after the 2024 election, with Biden’s team allegedly blaming Obama for influencing Biden’s decision to not run. These reports remain unconfirmed by both families.
As Michelle Obama continues to step back from the political stage, her decision to avoid significant events remains a topic of public discussion and media coverage.
