A tense moment at former President Jimmy Carter’s funeral has sparked media discussion after former First Lady Laura Bush appeared to decline a handshake with Donald Trump during Thursday’s memorial service on January 9, 2025.
The interaction drew attention on the Sunday, January 12 broadcast of the Fox News show “Fox & Friends,” during which host Rachel Campos-Duffy criticized Laura Bush’s demeanor while praising incoming First Lady Melania Trump’s attendance despite personal circumstances.
“One thing we didn’t note yesterday… that was the first anniversary of Melania’s mother’s death, as well, on that same day,” Campos-Duffy said. “So she went to that; other first ladies didn’t [referring to Michelle Obama], but she went, and I just thought it was so dignified, the way she carried herself.”
The commentary highlighted ongoing tensions between Trump and the Bush family, whose relationship has remained strained since the 2016 Republican primary campaign against Jeb Bush. Presidential historians note such public interactions often reflect deeper political divisions within parties.
In contrast, President-elect Trump and former President Barack Obama were observed engaging in a seemingly amicable conversation during the service. Their interaction stood out, given their historically strained relationship. The two were seen laughing and joking, which drew attention from attendees and media alike.
Vice President Kamala Harris, seated in the front row, was also observed during the service. At one point, she glanced over her shoulder to see President-elect Trump and former President Obama conversing. She then turned back, exhaling audibly, which was noted by attendees.
The service also marked the first public encounter between Trump and his former Vice President Mike Pence since 2021. Sources present reported that Pence congratulated Trump on his recent victory and received a handshake and thanks in return. This interaction drew particular attention given Trump’s previous criticism of Pence regarding the 2020 election certification, and his behavior toward him during the January 6 takeover of the US Capitol.
During the broadcast, Fox News hosts expanded their commentary to include observations about other political figures’ attendance and demeanor. “And then the grumpiest award goes to Laura Bush,” Campos-Duffy remarked, prompting co-host Charles Hurt to reference Michelle Obama’s absence and Will Cain to comment on Karen Pence’s expression.
Adding to the complexity, former First Lady Michelle Obama was also notably absent from the funeral due to a scheduling conflict. Michelle Obama, an advocate for maintaining decorum and tradition, announced she would not attend Trump’s upcoming inauguration—a significant departure from established protocol. Her absence and announcement have sparked discussions about the changing norms of public engagement among political figures.
These interactions and Michelle Obama’s absence did not entirely overshadow the focus on Carter’s legacy. The former president, celebrated for his commitment to humanitarian causes and post-presidential work with organizations like Habitat for Humanity, was remembered as a statesman who prioritized service over partisanship. Speakers at the service reflected on his efforts to foster peace and his dedication to uplifting marginalized communities.
House Speaker Mike Johnson (R-LA) and Senate Majority Leader John Thune (R-SD) were present, alongside their Democratic counterparts, House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries (D-NY) and Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer (D-NY).
Those in attendance also included Senator Dave McCormick, Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau, Vice President-elect JD Vance, Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh, former First Son Hunter Biden, and former Vice President Al Gore.
Alongside President Biden, several others spoke during the service. These included Carter’s grandsons, Joshua Carter and Jason Carter; Steven Ford, son of former President Gerald Ford; and Ted Mondale, son of former Vice President Walter F. Mondale.
The assembly of current and former leaders at the National Cathedral not only paid tribute to Carter’s legacy but also underscored the ongoing dynamics within American political circles.
