Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s reignited relationship appears to be under strain, with recent reports suggesting significant issues. Matt Damon, a close friend of Affleck’s, reportedly cautioned him about the potential risks involved in renewing his romance with Lopez, including threats to his sobriety and career.
According to insiders close to the actors, Damon, 53, encouraged Affleck to concentrate on his career and avoid distractions. “Matt tried to warn Ben when he got back together with J.Lo that this could happen,” a source revealed. “Matt was there to help Ben pull himself together following their initial breakup, and he suspected this might happen again.”
Affleck, 51, and Lopez, 54, have been living apart for several months, stoking rumors of a forthcoming divorce. The couple, often referred to as Bennifer, have been spotted without their wedding rings. Affleck has relocated to a rental in Brentwood, California, costing $100,000 per month, while Lopez was seen on a solo vacation in Italy.
Fueling the rumors, the couple has quietly listed their $60 million Beverly Hills, California mansion for sale. Insiders suggest this action points to more profound issues within their marriage.
Despite these difficulties, both Affleck and Lopez have remained focused on their careers. Lopez has been actively preparing for her impending concert tour and promoting her Netflix film “Atlas,” while Affleck has been working on “The Accountant 2.”
Damon’s worries about the relationship’s effect on Affleck’s career are not without merit. The “Good Will Hunting” actor, who has sustained a stable 18-year marriage to Luciana Barroso, allegedly told Affleck, “What has she ever done for your career?” Damon has been a consistent supporter, ensuring that Affleck remains focused and avoids falling back into old habits.
Affleck and Lopez, who first dated in the early 2000s and reunited in 2021, have endured intense public scrutiny throughout their relationship. In her documentary, “The Greatest Love Story Never Told,” Lopez disclosed that the pressure on their highly publicized romance led to their initial separation just days before their planned wedding.
In recent interviews, Affleck expressed his unease with the continuous media attention and the stresses of sustaining a high-profile relationship. He stressed that he did not want his relationship with Lopez to be a social media spectacle, despite acknowledging that this is an expectation when involved with a public figure like Lopez.
Lopez has been contemplating a move to New York City, a decision insiders say was in progress even before her marital issues intensified. This move is viewed as a way for her to evade the scrutiny of the West Coast and concentrate on her family, including her 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme.
Despite the ongoing rumors and their separate lifestyles, sources close to the couple assert that they do not wish to divorce and are still attempting to resolve their issues. However, as they navigate these tumultuous times, the future of their relationship remains unclear.
