Recent Instagram posts by Jennifer Lopez have sparked discussions about the state of her marriage to Ben Affleck. Lopez has been sharing snippets of her 2021 song, “Cambia El Paso,” which some fans believe could be suggestive of issues in her relationship. The song, which means “Change the Step,” explores themes of personal growth and moving on, which are perceived by many as relevant to her present circumstances.
The song includes lyrics such as, “He doesn’t deserve to have her in his arms” and “Her life is better now without him.” These lines have triggered discussions about Lopez and Affleck’s marital status, with some considering the posts as more than just a commemoration of the song’s release anniversary.
Lopez’s social media activity coincides with ongoing rumors of marital problems between her and Affleck. Married in 2022, the couple has been subject to media scrutiny for several months. Reports suggest that they have been living separately, with Affleck moving his belongings out of their shared residence in Beverly Hills, California and Lopez spending the Fourth of July weekend separately.
In an interview on SiriusXM’s Pitbull’s Globalization show in 2021, Lopez stated that “Cambia El Paso” is about embracing change and referred to her split with then husband Alex Rodriguez. “The song is about change and not being afraid to take the step,” she explained. “Like, just take the step, advance, do what you need to do. If something’s not feeling right, whatever it is in your life, just make that move and dance. Dance is life and joy and happiness.”
Recent reports indicate that Lopez and Affleck have been spending more time apart, adding fuel to the divorce rumors. A source close to the couple disclosed that Affleck has relocated from their home to a rented property. Meanwhile, Lopez remains at their Beverly Hills mansion which is for sale.
The couple’s separate Fourth of July celebrations further contributed to the speculation. Lopez spent the holiday in the Hamptons with her twins, Emme and Max, from her previous marriage to Marc Anthony. Conversely, Affleck was seen in Los Angeles, California, with his children from his former marriage to Jennifer Garner. Despite the rumors, both were spotted wearing their wedding rings during the holiday weekend, leading to confusion about the actual status of their relationship.
Adding to the complexity, Lopez’s family has reportedly expressed concerns about her relationship with Affleck. Sources reveal that Lopez’s mother and sisters have advised her to move on. A source quotes Jennifer’s mother as saying, “Cut your losses and move on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess.” She further added, “He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her, and because of this, she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.”
While Lopez hasn’t directly addressed the rumors surrounding her marriage, her Instagram activity continues to intrigue her followers. The timing of her posts, coupled with the song’s lyrics, has led many to speculate that she might be signaling something about her relationship with Affleck.
Affleck, who speaks Spanish fluently from his time filming a TV show in Mexico, would undeniably comprehend the nuances of the song’s lyrics. This has further stimulated speculation that the posts may be a subtle means of expressing her feelings about their relationship.
As of now, neither Lopez nor Affleck has made any official statement about their marital status. Fans and media outlets continue to keep a close watch on their social media for any clues or updates about their relationship. The couple’s journey, from their revived romance to their subsequent marriage, has captured significant attention, and any developments will likely pique the interest of their followers.
