Ralph Cirella, a prominent figure in the entertainment industry, best known as the longtime stylist and friend of radio host Howard Stern, passed away on December 5, 2023, at the age of 58. His death occurred during a medical procedure while he was being treated for a rare form of lymphoma.
Born on April 20, 1965, Cirella began his association with Howard Stern in 1985, initially making contact by calling into Stern’s radio show. Over the years, he became a significant presence on “The Howard Stern Show,” not only as Stern’s personal stylist but also contributing as a wardrobe consultant and set designer. His role extended beyond the stylistic, as he was instrumental in introducing Stern to his now-wife, Beth Ostrosky.
Cirella’s impact on the show and its host was profound. Howard Stern, on announcing Cirella’s passing on his SiriusXM radio show, described him as a dear and trustworthy friend, emphasizing their long-standing relationship of over 40 years. Stern expressed deep sadness and frustration over the loss, noting Cirella’s delay in seeking treatment for his illness, which he characterized as curable and treatable.
Apart from his work with Stern, Cirella had a diverse career in the entertainment industry. He worked as a makeup artist and costume designer, contributing to the unique visual elements of Stern’s shows from 1989 to 2007. His creative talents were also recognized by actor John Stamos, who paid tribute to Cirella, highlighting their longstanding friendship that dated back to the 1990s.
Cirella’s first interaction with Stern’s show was not only a pivotal moment in his career but also marked the beginning of a lifelong bond with Stern. His initial call to request a Christmas song by Connie Francis for his mother showed the personal and humble beginnings of what would become a significant professional relationship. Throughout his time on the show, Cirella was known for his humor and the unique rapport he shared with Stern, creating a “secret language” that underscored their close friendship.
Despite his talents and contributions, Cirella’s health issues became a point of concern. Stern, in his announcement, indicated that Cirella did not adequately address his medical condition in time, leading to complications. The nature of his illness, a rare form of lymphoma, was underscored by its characterization as treatable, suggesting that earlier intervention might have altered the course of events.
In remembrance, friends and colleagues, including Stern and Stamos, have shared their grief and memories of Cirella, portraying him as a unique and irreplaceable figure in their lives. His passing has left a notable void in a show and a community where he had been a staple for decades.
